Dr. Chapman has been married for over 35 years, and when combined with his 30+ years of marriage counseling, he is the man we turn to for help in improving or healing our most important relationships. Dr. Chapman believes that unhappiness in marriage has a clear root cause: we speak different love languages. Some people are verbal and express their love with words, while others do not express their emotions at all, but express them with their actions. Unfortunately, many husbands and wives look to receive affection from others in the same way that they give their own.